Monthly Archives: September 2014

Oven pancakes

Breakfast for me over the last few years has gone through many changes.  I don’t usually enjoy making breakfast in the morning time.  While having my little ones, be so little, I resorted to an easy method of serving breakfast…..cheerios and milk EVERYDAY.  I would serve a breakfast for dinner one day per week just for fun.

Then I wanted to lose some weight and started serving oatmeal for breakfast instead.  It was easy and good for us.  Well my children got tired of oatmeal.

Now, I get up in the morning and make eggs for breakfast.  Yes, usually each morning, unless I had a bad night, I get up and prepare breakfast beyond oatmeal.  Some of the children prefer that and I can do that, but MAKING breakfast that is big for me.

Now I haven’t gotten to making pancakes and waffles just yet, that takes up WAY too much mess.  I did come across this recipe that is similar.  Another large family  friend of mine told me about a way she used up her eggs by making Swedish pancakes.  Since we have 20 dozen sitting in our refrigerator, I figured I had better use them up!!

IMG_20140923_171652If you do a internet search for oven pancakes or dutch oven pancakes, or baked pancakes or Swedish pancakes most all of the recipes are about the same.  I will just call them oven pancakes.

They are so simple to make and require no work, except for mixing. Blend the following together in a bowl:

  • 8 eggs
  • 2 cups flour
  • 2 cups milk
  • 1/2 tsp salt

IMG_20140923_153335In oven, while you are mixing up your ingredients melt 1 stick butter.  I doubled this recipe and made it in my turkey roaster pan!!!  
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After melted, pour in your batter and put in the oven.  That is it!! Now let the oven do the work.  400 degrees for about 30 minutes.  The batter poufs up in the pan and it looks something like this.
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Strange huh?  Yes, but has a wonderful chewy eggy taste.  We actually went through the entire pan with our family.  It was definitely something that they enjoy.  Plus I used up 16 eggs for one meal!!IMG_20140923_171644

 

We served ours with real maple syrup. I am thinking next time I am going to sprinkle some cinnamon and sugar into the buttery mass in the pan to cut back on the need for syrup.  Possibly sprinkle with some powdered sugar or even serve with our strawberry sauce.  Hmmmm lots of possibilities.  Definitely something worth trying.  

When do boys become Christian men? and large family birthday

Almost every culture has a special “rite of passage” for when boys become men.  Some may have them take a special journey on their own, some may have them go on a hunt, some might have a special ceremony.  But when in our Christian America do we decide when our boys become men?

Some boys might think it is when they get their drivers license, when they turn 18, when they are allowed to “date” a girl or maybe when they leave home.

But in reality there is no real special moment of transition for a boy. This leads to many insecurities in today’s boys.   Most boys  go about life and try and “prove” their manhood by doing senseless things as directed by our society.  They get involved in gangs, destructive behavior, or take a girl to bed….all to try and “prove” their manhood.

What can we as parents do to show our boys true maturity in manhood?  You and I both know that there is NO real secret formula or a magic pill that will make them leap over to manhood perfectly.  We all know that the answer lies with God.  God MUST be at work in our young man’s lives AND be at work in us as parents, helping  train and guide our young men.

True maturity is spiritual.  It is wisdom in knowing God and his will, and being able to carry it out in your life.  Proverbs 1 :1-7 says

The proverbs of Solomon the son of David, king of Israel:
2 To know wisdom and instruction,
To perceive the words of understanding,
3 To receive the instruction of wisdom,
Justice, judgment, and equity;
4 To give prudence to the simple,
To the young man knowledge and discretion—
5 A wise man will hear and increase learning,
And a man of understanding will attain wise counsel,
6 To understand a proverb and an enigma,
The words of the wise and their riddles.
7 The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge,
But fools despise wisdom and instruction.

Everyone has free will, we as parents can only seek the Lord with our whole heart and ask for wisdom.  We can do much planting and watering the seeds of God in helping mold our boys to manhood.

So, what are some practical things that we can do as parents.  We can help our boys grow in areas like:

  1. Knowledge of the contents of the Bible.
    1. knowing bible history
    2. knowing main themes of biblical books
    3. know books of the bible in order.
    4. read the bible all the way through.
    5. understand how biblical teachings center around Christ
  2. Knowledge of the major teachings of the Bible.
    1. be able to describe in words doctrine and respond to questions in using your own words.
  3. Memorization of selected passages and scriptures of the Bible.
  4. Personal relationship to the Lord.
    1. Using devotional material
    2. prayer diary
    3. participate in fasting and retreats
    4. growth in understanding of means for overcoming sin
  5. Projects of service
    1. helping serve the needy
    2. devote time to serving in church
  6. Wisdom in dealing with various spheres of life.
    1. finances–tithing, budget, investing, balancing a bank account
    2. etiquette– table etiquette, greeting etiquette, letter etiquette, conversational etiquette, sexual etiquette.
    3. Apologetics– answering questions and objections about Christian faith; understanding the Christian world view and the main competing worldviews and ideas in the United States.
    4. Sexuality: knowing Christian teaching and standards for thoughts and actions. Understanding how God designed male and female bodies

This list is extensive and not something that you approach overnight, it is something that you take years to help grow and develop your young boy into a godly manhood.

I pray that each of you reading this seeks the Lord in guidance and has a good support group when helping raise your godly young man.

For my “young man,”  he has turned 14 this past week.  Growing up before our eyes.  He has started to take over big brother’s jobs like cutting the grass.

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Here he was for the first time, doing the yard.

For his birthday, we went to Yates Cider Mill for our annual trail walk.

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I call it the country for city folks.  My husband and I have been going here since we dated and have taken our children, almost every fall since.  It used to be less crowded, but now since more are desiring to experience “nature” we find it is quite busy when we go.  IMG_20140921_154531

We usually go off of the main trail and take a lesser walked path down towards the water.  The children enjoy “exploring” and finding a new path.  IMG_20140921_154556

Here is Evan, showing his “age.”IMG_20140921_155447

The men walking along the path.  It is rather pretty when the leaves start changing color, we just went early this year.IMG_20140921_161500

We used to get all of the children’s pictures in front of this, but I could only get the little ones to pose.

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Then it was home for dinner.  Evan loves fish.  We made some salmon and tilapia fish broiled. Curly fries and corn.  He was a happy camper.IMG_20140921_200900

For dessert we did ice cream sandwich dessert.  Simple, yet delicious:

Layer the following in 9 x 13 pan:

  • 1 box ice cream sandwiches
  • 1/2 carton cool whip
  • hot fudge and caramel sauce
  • candy toffee bits
  • 1 box ice cream sandwiches
  • 1/2 carton cool whip
  • hot fudge and caramel sauce drizzled
  • top with remainder of toffee bits

 

Place in freezer until firm.  So good.  You can vary it by using different flavored ice cream sandwiches or candy pieces. Evan chose banana split.

Here he was “showing up” his sister in his height.  Unfortunately my 16 year old is not very tall and he used to be the same height for a long time, now he has surpassed her.  Sorry Lauren.IMG_20140921_202459

My prayer for you Evan is that you grow up seeking the Lord and finding His path for your life.  You have many wonderful gifts that God has bestowed upon you, and I am excited to see those turn to fruition. You are a gentle, kind, and considerate young man with a bright future ahead of you.  I love you so much.

Happy 14th Birthday Evan!!!

Every day is a gift, a chance to do something great…

Every day is a gift.  Your job is much more than cooking foods, cleaning house, changing diapers, and nursing babies.  Your job is to shape hearts and the lives of your children.  If you are faithful in nurturing, training, and teaching your children, than your reward will be an eternal blessing.

How do we go about doing that?

Live and interact with your children on a daily basis.  Let the little one, help wash dishes.  That big pile of water on the floor can be picked up with one large bath towel in seconds.  But that nurture and training will build a good relationship for when your child is 13 and can  be a blessing to you.

Make it a game with your toddler when gathering up the dirty laundry and throwing it into the basket and then making it be a dump truck, traveling to the dumping yard(laundry room.) Your children will learn that work is enjoyable instead of drudgery.  They will also learn that it is important to work for the benefit of others and they will bond with you in the process.

A mother finds her satisfaction in losing her own life for the cause of raising her children.  Life is NOT about pleasing ourselves for the here and now.  Possibly not even focusing on what we want.  It is about being committed to God first.  Then to our husbands, to our children, and to the journey that we are making together.

God is in the business of seeking mothers who are seeking Him.  In a world that has forgotten Him, God is looking for mothers who will be in charge of their homes and their children.

The godly mother will share love with her children.  She will also seek to “win” the hearts of her sons and daughters.  The first step to facilitating both of these is to place our children under authority.  In the same way that the fear of God prepares our hearts to have fellowship with God, disciplining our children and being in authority over them lays the foundation for wholesome parent-child relationships to develop.

Think of your role as the role of a store manager.  We must be filled with confidence, purpose, and decisiveness when it comes to parenting our children.  When we carry ourselves in a manner which shows we are in charge, it puts our children at rest.  This way when we are looked upon as “in charge” sometimes just giving “the look” will prompt your child to behave.

We need to be gentle mothers, who live AND laugh with our children.  Don’t be afraid to smile MOST of the time.  In fact, if you don’t your children will remember that.  Get down on their level, look into their eyes, and give them kisses and hugs.  Take the extra 2 minutes and go see their fort they have built, be impressed with the 20th picture that they made.

All those little moments will have lasting memories on your child.  Let them have a mother whom they remember as one who smiled and laughed and most importantly whose heart is safe with them.

Build those bonds, tie those heartstrings, and ENJOY your role as mother.  Is is like we are handed this big pile of unrefined gold.  Gold that we have to refine through discipline, direction, and love for eternity and fellowship with God.  That is a mighty job to have!!

 

Facing your fears

We do what we can do to avoid “pain” in our lives.  Most of us would naturally shy away from it.  We dread the sound of having to endure it at any time.  Some of us may even take extra measures to ensure an easy way: pain free and as carefree as possible.

The Bible seems to take on a different view on pain:

For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us.  Romans 8:18

The trials of our life are meant to bring us closer to God.  The pain that you may be faced with and maybe even dreading may be just the thing that God is going to use to draw you nearer to Him.

Even though, we cannot see more than the pain that is before us at times, we should rest in the fact the God has a plan and that will lead us to a greater glory.  To endure for the present will be worth it all.

I think of the song “Trading my sorrows”

I’m trading my sorrows
I’m trading my shame
I’m laying them down for the joy
of the Lord

I’m trading my sickness
I’m trading my pain
I’m laying them down for the joy
of the Lord

Yes Lord yes Lord yes yes Lord
Yes Lord yes Lord yes yes Lord
Yes Lord yes Lord yes yes Lord
Amen

I’m pressed but not crushed
persecuted not abandoned
Struck down but not destroyed
I’m blessed beyond the curse for
his promise will endure
And his joy’s gonna be my
strength

Though sorrow may last for the
night
His joy comes with the morning.

Sometimes our fears keep us from experiencing all that God has planned for us.  But if we walk by faith and go through the present pain, we can rest assured that God is going to use it to help us grow in our life.

This is one of the greatest things about God, that He even when going through our trials, he will be there holding our hand the whole time.  It is the joys of our walk with an intimate God.

Then when our trial is over, we can see and understand what we went through and why, then we can say with all confidence that by the grace of God, He brought me through it.  Sometimes looking back, we can think, “Well, that wasn’t nearly as bad as I thought it would be.”  That is confidence and faith in a God we can trust.

Then what are we to do with our experiences??? Share, testify, and encourage others who may be going through the same trials that we once went through.  It does us know good to be prideful, holds our heads high, and pretend that everything is fine.  We need to talk about the struggles we went through, share how we felt, share how God helped us and be a light to others.

God has spoken the light of Jesus into our hearts.  That light shines so powerfully through us that we are like the stars in the universe that point the human race toward real life.

That is a picture of discipleship with Jesus.  He is the light of the world.  If we have fellowship and faith in Him, we because we are in a supernatural union with Him, will have light.  We can not do it ourselves, it is only through our relationship with Him. Jesus said in John 8:12

I am the light of the world. He who follows Me shall not walk in darkness, but have the light of life.

Our focus must always be on the light, humbly trusting Jesus to reveal the light through us.

When sharing, encouraging, or ministering to someone prayerfully remember :

  • The influence and visibility is a result of who lives in you, not because of what you do.
  • It is God only that put you in a place of influence and visibility.
  • You are a steward of influence and visibility, remember to get out of the way and let the Holy Spirit do the work.
  • Only God can measure the significance of your influence and visibility.  It is not our job to force things upon people, we do what God would have us do and leave the other person to free will it with the Lord.

My frugal productivity last week #3

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My frugal productivity this last week was largely filled with excess produce.  Everyone is cleaning out their gardens and filling their jars and freezers with foods to eat through the next coming year.

I myself, do not have a large garden, something I hope to have one of these days but for now, we have been hugely blessed with people’s extras.

I was reminded this week of John 6 where the little boy had the 5 loaves of bread and 2 fish and how Jesus multiplied and fed the crowd.  Then when they were finished he told them to gather up the fragments.

Jesus was concerned about the leftovers.  I thought about Christ gathering all those fragments, those leftovers, those things that no one in the crowd wanted any more, and He gathered them for a purpose. What was His purpose in gathering these leftovers? He was going to use them.

I can apply this to my life and think how God will use the fragments of my life.  A life that was filled with brokenness until I came to know Him.  It is amazing how He can pick up all those little bits and pieces of my life and turn them into something worthy of His love.  It gives me hope for my life.  No matter what I had done or gone through in my life, He makes everything NEW in my life.  That I am grateful for. His unfailing Grace each day.

Now those fragments that I want to talk about it, is the fragments leftover from other people’s gardens.


IMG_20140922_115529We were given tomatoes and they were the “fragments” from their plants.  

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I washed them, had my daughter cut them, and then we put them into the food processor to puree them.  I came out with about 50 quarts of tomato puree. We did a few bushels that we bought from the store for real cheap.  Here is how we did them.   I put them in the freezer and then when we need to make some tomato based food, I will pull it out and thaw it.  I don’t premake any of our spaghetti sauce or pizza sauce.  I just throw it all together in a pan when I am cooking it.  Maybe one day I will take the time to make it and then freeze it, but for myself it doesn’t take too much longer to throw a few spices in the pot with the tomato ingredients.

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I made some bread this week.  Of course my preschoolers love to help me out when making it.  Here they were punching down the bread after it had rised.

Having the homemade bread was a cheap treat for them to have in the afternoon to hold out their tummies until dinner.  We spread a little bit of butter and they loved it.  We like to make Ezekiel bread, a sweeter made with honey bread.

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I also have upped our Kombucha making system.  I now have 8 gallon brewing at different times.  IMG_20140915_122648

We have been experimenting with different flavors:

  • cranberry
  • strawberry
  • raisin
  • apple
  • cinnamon
  • raspberry

If we had to list them in order of favorite flavors…this would be the order.  I am loving the cranberry.

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My children are starting to enjoy this more.  Definitely a healthier alternative than soft drinks.  Plus all the added health benefits.  

Another “fragment” that we had acquired much of was cucumbers.  We really like cucumbers and have eaten our share this past summer, but we are getting to that point of being tired of cucumbers.  I had to find something else to make.  I make this Greek cucumber side dish and love it.  Tzatziki  is the official name.  
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I peeled the cucumbers and then put them through my food processor mandolin slicer.
I added about 1 tsp salt and mixed them up.  I let them sit for about 15 minutes.  I then added:

  • 1 tsp sugar
  • 1/2 tsp  pepper
  • 1 tsp dried onion
  • 3 T sour cream

I just mixed it up and let it set.  This was very good as a side dish and have made it every day.

We also received bushels of corn.  I had only done corn once by myself before back in the day.  I was doing it in jars and I remember seeing it start to ferment as it was waiting to go in the pressure cooker.  I called my dear friend and she said, throw it all out, come up and we will do a bunch of corn for your freezer.  I learned that it can go quite quickly when you have lots of helpers.

This year, I had lots of helpers, I had a few children out husking it and then I had a helper inside.  We blanched it in 3 different pots for about 6 minutes and then took it out and put in a cooler filled with ice and water for the same amount of time.  I took it out and then cut the kernals off on top of a cookie sheet.  I had read about using a bundt pan.  You would stick your ear of corn in the center and then it would drop in the pan.  I just don’t own one so I had to use my cookies sheets.

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We then put them into ziploc bags and froze them.  This was something that actually went pretty fast.  I enjoyed doing it.  IMG_20140920_163328

I have been diligently trying to keep the lights off in the house.  We can leave lights on in the basement and the garage for days on end.  Part of being frugal, I am trying to keep that electric bill down, because it will be going up as cold weather fast approaches.  I am working on reminding the children to shut the lights off as well.

This week we also had a bunch of errands to do and it kept us away from the home part of the day. I made sure to always take food with us to eat and have a meal ready in the crockpot for when we came home.  This saved on not spending anything for meals while out.

We took peanut butter and honey sandwiches for lunch along with apple slices.  For dinner I made these in the crockpot:

For every meal this week, we served corn on the cob, cucumber salad, and watermelon.  These were items that we had received in excess, so we gathered up our fragments and served them.

It was  an inexpensive week for groceries.  Thank goodness for everyone’s extras.

I also sewed a few pairs of leggings for my girls.  I had some that were too big in the waistline but plenty long for them.  I am not a big sewer but I can sew a straight line to take in the pants.  Now the girls have pants that won’t fall down when running.

We also went to town this week and had an empty trunk.  Each time we went, I made sure to fill up on wood pallets.  We chainsaw these up and use them as starter wood for our household heat.  I never like to come home with an empty trunk, costs too much in gas.  At least we picked up free wood.

Despite, doing much running this week, we still did ALL of our school.  My goal is not to fall behind if not necessary.  The household cleaning took a back seat, but it will catch back up this next week.

How about you?? Any frugal productivity for your week?