It is our prayer and goal to share the love of Jesus through one of his gifts…..music. It gives us an opportunity to share and serve others with food, fellowship, and entertainment. As I have posted before , we have a Christian open mic night at our home, once a month.

My daughter and son, host the event. Dad and I are the chaperones and servers. We like to make sure that everyone is having a good time. We refill their plates, interact with them, and talk about what is going on in their lives. It has been a very rewarding time, getting to know these teenagers.
Why do we do it? While most parents might cringe at the thought of hearing a bunch of teenagers pounding on drums, or screaming their electric guitars, we think it is great! Nothing has been more wonderful than following the Christian world of music.

We as a family, enjoy very much, scoping out all the new bands, finding those that are on the underground, and exposing them to other teens. We have been shocked to find out that most teenagers, even in the Christian circles, do not listen to Christian music. They find it not “as cool” as the world bands. It has been our hope to expose some of the alternative bands that sound like worldly bands to this youth. We have a great Christian radio station that has been revamped this past year and it offers so much rocking, jamming music.

I  was excited to see our local station really branch out and expose our younger generation to all of these great bands through some awesome music. I am very thankful for them. I believe they have an app that you can download here at their site to listen to their music, free of course.

Influence of music

Most of the time, when we hear a song, we begin to form an image of the lyrics in our minds. We may even imagine ourselves acting out the song’s lyrics.
For example, a slow, romantic song may easily put someone in a romantic mood. A song with angry, violent lyrics may lead someone to commit violent acts.

Music with words that produces images of sexual immorality, violent behavior, or other negative images appeals to the lowest nature of mankind.
People might not think much about it, as some of the messages are subtle. But they can cause problems later in life if those negative images are allowed to become rooted in our minds.

While there are other factors that help to influence our decisions in life, music has proven to be an influence that can change our attitudes and perspectives.

Take a moment to consider the negative impact certain song lyrics may have had on you. Music’s powerful influence can be contributed to people being encouraged to drink alcohol, try illegal drugs or participate in pre-marital sex.

Many young people enjoy listening to popular music with friends and feel odd and left out when they don’t. However, the problem comes when lyrics encourage destructive behavior and cause teens to give in to peer pressure. Music has been linked to certain violent behavior in youth. It sometimes inspires many young people to resort to violence whenever they have a conflict.

Words are very important!
What we say (or sing) with all our hearts will lead to actions that could bring either positive or negative results.

Proverbs 18:22 says…
Life and death is in the power of the tongue

Music was originally designed to praise and worship God. Christian music appeals to the highest nature of mankind.
When we listen to praise and worship music, it captures our minds and inner-most beings, and we begin to fall in love with our Creator over and over again!
For every secular artist on the market, there is a Christian alternative.   These born again artists are just as good but with a better message. This is what we need to be promoting to our teenagers.  Please consider supporting your local Christian radio station so that they can help put into the ears of our teenagers good music with an uplifting message.
It is not wise to try to give up one thing without a better alternative to put in its place. Find more positive, uplifting music

Here are our performers for this months open mic.  We had Daddy-Greg and daughter, Lauren perform.  Austin got up there and played some guitar with them.  We had a newbie first time performer–way to go Rosalie, a boy that is blind, play and sing some Colton Dixon and Capital Kings–Logan you rock!!!  He had his 2 lovely sisters, Chloe and Autumn up there singing as well.  Chris played us some amazing electric guitar, a trio of girls sang, Oh, how He loves us–Hope, Grace, and Molly with Dad Anthony playing guitar.  Hope, Katie,  Lauren and Jared sang by themelves.  Alyssa sang with Collin some Lifehouse.  They ALL did an amazing job!!!  You guys are awesome.

 

For food, in case anyone wonders what we served this bunch:

• hot dogs over the fire
• brownie, strawberry skewers
• smores with fudge striped cookies
• hummus and pita chips
• vegetable and spinach dip
• watermelon and grapes
• licorace
• pop and water

 

You can click here to see our previous open mic and how we made a stage out of plywood and free pallets.

 

The challenge: to learn how to unwind from a stress filled day

No matter what kind of life you have, simple or complicated it all comes with STRESS!  From being a stay at home Mom with a toddler, to a multi millionaire CEO of a company—they have two things in common—-they both experience STRESS.

Why make the change:

No matter how simplified our lives are things in life happen.  Babies cry, people will let us down, friends will let us down, dinner will burn,  money will be tight, the car will break down, and our husbands will let us down occasionally. It is part of life.  There is no way to avoid it. Nothing we can do to prevent it, it just happens it is called LIFE.  But knowing what you can do to help yourself unwind after a stressful day is important in saving your sanity, your heart, and your peace of mind.

How to make the change:

Next time, when everything seems to just fall apart, try some of these ways to unwind from stress:

• Take a few deep breathes.  Sometimes when my children are driving me crazy and I want to yell, I stop and take a few deep breathes, breathing in, then holding it, and then slowly letting it out.  Sometimes it helps to do this 3-5 times as needed.
• Do a self massage.  When tensions run high, give yourself a neck rub. Sometimes it helps to rub your head, massaging your scalp.  If you have a great massaging husband or child, let them do it for you.
• Take a walk.  When life gets unbearable and you feel like you can’t go anymore without exploding, get away.  Take a walk and breathe deeply, letting go of the worries of the stress. Even if it is for 5 minutes, just to get out and get a chance to regroup will make a difference.
• Take a day off.  For some of us, this won’t be possible.  But if you are having  a hard time with the children, let your spouse know that you are needing some time away.  Grab something to eat and go sit somewhere relaxing all by yourself and give yourself time to regroup.
• If you aren’t a stay at home Mom, then spend time with your family.  Nothing is better than reminding yourself why it is your doing what you do at work—-you are doing it for your children and spouse.  Nothing is more important than family.
• Unwire yourself from media.  Shut off your phone, avoid emails, avoid the television.  Just learn to shut your brain off for a few hours.  Constantly worrying about emails, status’s, or even stress of sites not loading up quickly are enough to stress you out.  Get away from it, go take a walk in nature, take your family to the park, learn to unwind.
• Take a nap.  Nothing can cure stress more quickly than by taking a much needed rest.  Even a 20 minute cat nap will help you deal more effectively with the stress.

These are all great ways to help you as you unwind from your days.