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Breastfeeding your babies – part one

I’ve spent 576,000 minutes on average nursing my babies over the last 20 years. I’ve had good experiences and bad. But with each new baby I’ve learned many tactics that have helped me over the years on my journey to nourish my child’s first year of life.

Here are a few facts about nursing ……..

  1.  Breastfeeding may reduce your risk of developing breast cancer. Recent studies showed that pre-menopausal women who breastfed their children were 50 percent less likely to develop breast cancer, compared to women who did not nurse their children.
  2. Breastfeeding has a calming effect on mommas. When your baby nurses, your body releases the hormone oxytocin, which causes calmness, even sleepiness.
  3. Breastfeeding is a great pain reliever and soother. Your milk contains endorphins which soothe and calm babies during times of stress. This comes in very handy during vaccinations, injuries, illnesses, or when your baby just needs that special cuddle
  4. Those endorphins during breastfeeding also benefit you–this is why breastfeeding mothers report being happier, less tired and having less post-partum depression. .
  5. Breastfeeding burns calories. While you sit and relax with your baby you are also burning up to an extra 500 calories per day. So the ideal way to lose weight without the exercise!
  6. Breastfeeding reduces your babies exposure to sugar. the only sugar a baby should have or even needs, is lactose. This is the harmless sugar found in breast milk. sucrose is the alternative and can cause damage to erupting teeth.
  7. Breastfeeding contributes to a better environment. Breastfeeding is energy efficient – no need to boil water,wash, or sterilize.  Less waste with breastfeeding.
  8. Fresh breast milk is never contaminated with bacteria. In fact, it has antibacterial properties.
  9. Your milk contains healthy bacteria, antibodies, white blood cells, antimicrobials and cell wall protectors — which is the science behind why exclusively breastfed babies have a significantly lower risk of contracting infections.
  10. Breast milk has never been recalled. Formula has been, sometimes after causing injury or death.
  11. It’s what breasts were designed for!

 Philippians 4:8

“Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.”

 

Continue reading part two for resources I recommend for easier breastfeeding.

7 tips for the harried housewife

cropped-try-this1.jpg1. Keep things practical and simple.


When we live and work in the home, if we have a lot of stuff it feels cluttered. There is always something that needs cleaning, or straightening. Always something getting in the way. I find that if I don’t use something for a whole year, I get rid of it. I try and go through my house and weed out things that are unused at least 2 or 3 times per year. Give away to a friend, or sell online and pay off some debt. Make rooms as simple as possible. Ask yourself “Do I really need this? Or what purpose does this fill?” Work on a room every month, in a years time you should have made significant progress.

2. A place for everything, and everything in its place.

I can’t stress this enough…..organize…….organize…….organize. I could do this weekly. I’m always thinking of a better way to do things or to make them more efficient. Train your family to place items back where they got them from. Yes, it takes lots of time but eventually the 2 year old will get it!

3. Do 15 minutes of quick clean up.


Amazing what you can do in 15 short minutes of time. Set the timer and everyone work. Fill the sink with water and start cleaning up the counters, placing all stray cups in the sink, wipe down counters, backboards, and stoves while filling the sink. Wash a few dishes and let air dry, soak the crusted on pans while you sweep up the kitchen floor.

4. Keep odors under control.

Smelly homes are bad, they send a messages to unexpected guests that you are unclean. Keep bathroom trashes empty, wipe bathrooms down daily. Use a paper towel and cleaner in a spray bottle and do a quick wipe of sink, then toilet, then floors before you leave the bathroom in the morning.
For your diapers, keep your trash lid closed or throw diapers in an outside trash can. If you use cloth make sure to keep them in a closed in area preferable away from the normal household activities. Keep a few candles around to light in a quick pinch. My favorite is banana nut bread—-yummy.

5. Teach child preventative maintenance.

This takes time and patience but in the long run will yield good fruit. Train your children when coming into the home, take off your shoes and coats and put them away immediately. When done washing their hands and brushing their teeth, wipe up the mess in the bathroom. These little helps will go a long way.

6. Moms, get your sleep.

I know the one foolproof way for me to end up “losing it” is by not getting enough sleep. When we are not rested we will not be fit to take care of our children. The rule is if you are not blessed to have your babies sleep through the night then goto bed when they do. Its so easy to get wrapped up in reading blogs or by watching TV but it will take a toll on us in the morning. For myself, I have a nursing baby who eats every 3 hours, a 2 year old that has slept through the night maybe a handful of times since she was born, and a 3 year old who occasionally still gets up. Sleep is just not for me:-) I figured when I retire I’m gonna sleep till noon everyday:-)

7. Spend time in prayer.

When things look overwhelming, and you just don’t know what to do…goto the Lord. Ask him which things are most important for you to do right now and which can be put off till later. Or maybe you just need to vent and get some reassuring comfort.

As with everything know that to tomorrow is a new day and you can start out fresh again.

Modest no sew nursing tops

After nursing all ten of my babies, one thing I needed to purchase each year was nursing tops.  Most of the tops that were “in style” were immodest, extremely uncomfortable to nurse in, and shrank after being washed a few times.  It was a very frustrating thing at an already emotional time.  I had to find another alternative.

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First thing I did was I headed to our goodwill and purchased some plain t-shirts.  I tried to find ones that were form fitting, higher around the neck, and longer to hide those “after baby bellies.”

Next I put them on.  Stood in front of the mirror, grabbed my sewing scissors , and started to cut nursing slits.

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I made sure to cut more on the outer curve of the breast.  I did cut ones right across the front of my breast but those usually ended up showing through my outer top.  The cut needs to be about 3 inches wide.

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Now choose an outertop to cover your nursing holes.  You can wear most any kind, fitted, button- up,etc.  What’s great is that you don’t have to lift up the bottom shirt to nurse.  All that “after baby tummy” doesn’t get exposed:-)

 

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Simple and easy, wish I would’ve thought of this for my first babies.